Dear Aunty Aurora,
Four months ago I began seeing a lovely woman. We were getting on well and decided we were ready to have sex, just before lockdown.
I tried to make it a good experience for her but I am well endowed and she said sex hurt. She said I am too big. I am 33 and she is 29. We haven’t been able to have sex since because we weren’t ready to move in with each other.
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But we have stayed in touch and both say we can’t wait until we can meet. But how can I make sure she enjoys sex with me? I’m worried I’m going to lose her because of this. Thanks. Rotimi, Abeokuta.
First times are often tricky but it sounds as though your girlfriend wasn’t fully aroused. Having plenty of sexy foreplay without rushing into intercourse can make all the difference.
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