Dear Aunty Aurora, After seven years of marriage and with two sons aged five and three, I am no longer attracted to my wife. I am 35 and she is 30. She is the woman I lost my virginity to, and sex was amazing and regular at first. But after a while she had so many demands over how sex had to be for her to reach orgasm, it eventually stopped me doing so.A month ago I checked her Facebook profile and noticed the huge amount of men that fancy my wife. I just thought: “What is wrong with me that I don’t fancy her?” But only one thing sparks me, and that’s big boobs. My wife told me she would consider having breast enlargement and for a week my sex drive went into overdrive. But she then decided it’s not for her and we have not been intimate since. Every time we argue about something she complains about our lack of sex. Thanks. Nosa-Abuja.Dear Nosa, It sounds as though you lost your nerve sexually because you discovered you had to make an effort to bring your wife to orgasm as well as yourself. Real women’s responses aren’t as they are portrayed in the porn that you probably used until you got together with her. Don’t shoot yourself in the foot by blaming your lack of desire now on her breasts.Photo Credit: Getty
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