Dear Aunty Aurora, I have a beautiful wife and we regularly have sex but I’m not getting much pleasure from it. I’m 32 and she is 29. We’ve been married for almost a year and I love her a lot.
Before that I was single for two years and I didn’t have sex all that time. I’m so happy to be with my wife but I don’t get the sensation I have when I’m doing the business alone. I get more sensation and stronger orgasms when I’m masturbating with porn. I know sex should be so much better, but what do I do? Thanks Andy, Lekki
Dear Andy, It will mean ending a long love affair – with watching porn and pleasuring yourself. You’ve got stuck in your ways. Give your wife a chance! Watching porn can blunt your sexual responses to sex in real life. It’s not the same process at all.
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