Dear Aunty Aurora,
I LOVE my husband but we have not had sex in 6 months. I am a woman of 46, he’s 45.
I’m still considered attractive and I regularly exercise to keep myself fit. He works long hours with his own business.
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I now work part-time but the house and children work keeps me busy. We sit together in the evening and cuddle up but he just isn’t interested in sex. And he doesn’t ever want to talk about it. I don’t want to nag but I miss our intimacy. Thanks. Ifeoma, Magodo-Lagos.
Long hours and running a business can ramp up stress levels, which can impact sex drive and performance.
Be his best friend and also keep reassuring him about how much you love him. Be firm that he needs a check with his doctor as loss of erection and/or libido can be a sign of a health problem that needs treating.
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