Aunty Aurora, I’m 21 And My Married Old Lover Just Asked Me To Be His Second Wife, What Should I Do?

Dear Aunty Aurora,
I am 21 and have fallen in love with a man who is 47. He is married but is also very much in love with me and we are happy together and not bothered about the age difference.

He has recently asked me to marry him as his second wife and he seems serious about this. All my friends are against this and say that I am only after him because of his money.


I know that I am very much in love with him and that he loves me too and I don’t care much about money as long as we are happy together. He is also great in bed.

This is putting a lot of tension between me and my close friends and now I don’t know what to do about. Please advise me. Ijeoma, Garki- Abuja.
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Dear Ijeoma,
what has gotten into you? Why are you working – no struggling so hard – to put yourself in the position many women get into by mistake but live the rest of their lives in regret?
You did the right thing by seeking advice early but I am afraid that I may not give you the kind of advice you are looking for. I can only reiterate the facts you have provided and leave you to make the decision with the hope that you will make the right one.

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