That Sharp Naija Guy: 5 Signs That Babe Is Just Using You -Dump Her Series 2

She Is Using You, So Dump Her!!! Welcome back Gees, its another beautiful Wednesday and yes it’s another time for y’all to learn from the well of the guru’s street relationship knowledge of the love conductor. All I do is bring enlightenment about relationships mostly though it’s enlightenment for the male folks. And as ever this week’s topic is a deep one, as the love conductor is on another of his dump her emancipation series. Dump Her; She is Using You

So grab a pen and note these points you just learn a thing or two, because a lot of guys are in relationships where they don’t know that they’re in only because the babe sees a lot of benefits in it for themselves only, and the relationship isn’t truly mutually beneficial. In such relationships, benefits are usually skewed and most times the lady brings nothing else to the table but just pussy, to even make it worse the sex might be lame, boring, and quite labouring. But just because they make it available to you regularly they feel like they are doing you a favour.

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So if you want to know if she is using you, below are the signs to help you know she is actually using you and what you can do about it;

  1. She Makes You Pay For Everything: You are in a relationship with a babe where you have to pay for everything for her, especially when you’re together, even for the smallest things she can afford. But when you complain she seems to always throw up the line you’re the man now! Haaa brother you’ve entered it run o. Another tell tale sign in this category is whenever you both go out she always seems to always go for the most expensive things on the menu like she just intentionally wants to make you go into penury.
  2. She Already Told You Before That She Only Wants You As A Friend:
    Hmmm, this might be a contentious point, because there are times when some ladies would warn you off that they don’t want a relationship with a guy but rather they just want to be friends with you. But some ladies are confused about their feelings and say they want a guy to apply pressure more. But there are times when some ladies really don’t want a relationship with a guy but rather just want to be a friend and the guy persist at this point the girl is most liable to take advantage of such a guy and use him for her personal gains. She’s Using You
  3. She Avoids Serious Talk: 
    Everything is so superficial, she never talks to you about anything about your life and all, and when you try to talk about serious things with her she shuts it down. That’s a huge red flag that tells that she is just using you, dude come on just bounce. Because girls are really really curious, especially if they like you. They always want to know more about you, they also want you also to know more about them. But if she always avoids all of this well just so you know, she is using you for a particular reason and once she’s done using you she will dump your ass, so just before she does that you dump her ass and move.
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  4. She’s Only Available When It Convenient For Her:
    Like come on dude why does it have to be only you that makes all of the sacrifices, putting in all of the extra work. But she only calls you when she needs something from you or only makes herself available when it’s pleasing for her own needs. When you ask for you guys to go out she is never available but when you ask her to come over to your place she turns you down. Or she never invites you to come over to her place.
  5. She Isn’t That Emotionally Vested In You: 
    Come on dude, the first rule or lesson to learn about women as a grown-ass man going into a relationship is to know that they are emotional beings. Unlike men that are more visually and logical. So if a woman you are dating just never show are emotional side to you, or isn’t emotional about anything about you damn! bro, you’re fucked that babe is using you and shall do you dirty. If she doesn’t seem to really care about what happens in your life or what you’re doing with your life damn! that girl isn’t for you and she’s only there using you for a certain reason.

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