That Sharp Naija Guy: 4 Ways To Avoid Getting Into An Unwanted Marriage

Allo ah dear good people of the SNG universe, so today it’s all about finding a way to protect your sanity, your future and stay safe from deception and the ever cunny Nigerian ladies who lately have upped the game on how to get guys into marriages just when they aren’t ready to commit. Unwanted Marriage

Brother if you know you’re not yet ready to commit and settle down but yet you’ve got this particular who is at that point and she’s hell-bent to make you commit then this article is for you. When a lady wants to make you commit there are two major plays, which they almost always go for, which are usually are either they move-in with you and cloud your judgement with regular sex and good home-cooked food and while the other is to get knocked up by you {Get Pregnant}.
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With these two tricks known and established now, now let’s get into how to prevent getting hooked unwantedly

  1. Always Use Protection When Having Sex With Her:
    The first thing to do once you notice a babe is trying to get you to commit to her, never ever have unprotected sex with, unless you’re absolutely sure she’s in her safe period. Because getting pregnant is the oldest trick in the book so stay sharp and smart like a proper SNG that you’re.
  2. Don’t Let Her Move In With You:
    Do not let it happen, one thing is for sure if you’re single and you stay alone there’s most definitely going to be a babe on your case. But yet you’re not ready to commit but there is this babe who seems ready to make you commit, the first thing to notice is, is she always over at your place, If yes, then you would notice that she already has her toothbrush, hair net, panties, bras and quite a number of her wardrobe over at your place you’re in trouble brother. Is she beginning to time for regular sex, then she has a plan brother. Its either you make clear out, or you find a way to reduce how much time she spends at your place. Because once she starts to get to spend longer than a week at your place to a month brother you’re trouble.
  3. Clearly State To Her What Your Plans Are:
    If you enjoy all of the perks of her being over regularly, the intimacy, the companionship, regular sex, and maybe good food but you just not ready for a baby then come clean and tell her you don’t want a baby yet and would want to keep that way for so so and so period. But be smart not to make it to distant because she would start to suspect and question you more as to why so far away.
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  4. Don’t Let Them get to Close to your parents {Especially your Mum}:
    This is very important do not let them get to close to your parent most especially your Mum. Because if she dares create a great relationship with your mother your trouble doubles. Keeping them apart.

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