That Sharp Naija Guy: 5 Tips On How To Seduce An Older Lady

Allo Ah! so just a couple of days back I read the news of a Hausa young man who is set to marry an older white woman, and he has come out to say Nigerian woman don’t know how to love and he was just fulfiling the Sunnah of the holy prophet Muhammad (SAW). Well while I read through the news all I could think of was how was this 26-year-old able to seduce an older lady, he must be one heck of a confident young man.

After reading the story it sent me down memory lane of my encounters with older ladies and the valuable lessons I learnt from dealing with them and have decided to share them with from my tank of experience, I must point this out before going further being with an older woman is bloody hell way more interesting than their younger counterparts, way more skilful in bed, they’re confident about their sexuality and more interested in just having and sharing love and not how much you have in your account.

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Now, I would be sharing 5 essential tips on how to seduce an older lady and 3 things that are complete turn-offs to them.

1. Be Confident And Don’t play games: Confidence is the key when it comes to attracting anybody, not just older women. If you really want to know how to attract an older woman sexually, you need to be as confident as you can. Fake it till you make it. Pretend you’re confident even if you’re not. Single Older women are usual lookout for confident men who know what they’re doing and don’t play games be it in the bedroom, or life decisions. Taking charge and showing confidence that you can do it and know what your strength and weakness are. Never play games don’t be there trying to drop subtle hints and games it would only make you childish rather go in there be confident to tell her to her face in the sexiest, mature, calm manner that you want to fuck her brains out.

2. Don’t Show Off: Do not go about running your mouth about things you can’t do or have. Be more quiet, calm and humble you would not be able to woo most older woman by flaunting cash or showing off some sort of bravado, dude she’s older than you and has a lot more experience so just sit and be humble. Now being humble doesn’t mean you’re not confident of yourself and of what you want. It just simply just means there’s no time for bullshiting around.

3. Getting Physical And Touch: Don’t be afraid to get physical with her at all. Hey! don’t get this wrong am not saying you should go around harassing older women or touching her without her consent. What this means is do not hesitate when in the bedroom unlike with younger women who are not yet confident enough about their sexuality, Older women are and so you can’t be in the room waiting for a sign from her, nope you guys are there already she wants you to show experience a bit and take control.

But keep an open mind to listen to her, get to know what she wants because well, she is more experienced than you’re and might have some sexual skills that might just blow you out of the waters mehn!

4. Be Mature: Treat her with respect, Attracting older females cannot be successful without, at least, looking older yourself. Our age is not the only thing that defines our maturity. Attitude, approach, and behaviour can say about a person much more than age. Think rationally, don’t act out of your emotions, and don’t depend on feelings because that is what all young people do. On the contrary, be practical and pragmatic. Be able to listen and hold an informative conversation, be able to defend your views and principles.

She’s more interested in your passions and drive and less interested in talking about pop culture or who is a better singer between Wizkid and Davido.

5. Compliment Her And Be Able To Defend Her In Public: You must be able to compliment her—make her feel good and confident about her looks, Make her aware that you know that she looks good. It works with all women though. Then, compliment her behaviour, intelligence, lifestyle.

So there you go, these 5 things are the sure bets of how to seduce an older lady and help you to in bed with her. But I want to chip 3 extras that would also help you score as many older ladies as possible.

You need to know that an older lady who is open to being with a younger man, is out looking for 3 things which are;

1. Youthful Energy
2. Thirst For adventures, that she probably missed out on while she was younger or wants to re-live memories of her younger years
3. Someone she can love and would love her non-stop and can seduce an older lady.

5 Tips On How To Seduce An Older Lady Nigerian Woman

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