Dear Aunty Aurora, For about a whole month, I have not been able to have sex a second time right away with my wife. I can only go once and I don’t last long. My wife and I met got married a year and a half ago. She is 28, I am 33.
Everything was going great. Then I noticed this change. I told her I was worried but she said I shouldn’t be because everything is fine. The first time it happened, I tried to put it out of my mind as a blip, maybe from tiredness. The second and third times I failed to get a second erection, I panicked. What should I do? Gbenga Aguda – Lagos
Dear Gbenga, What you describe as a blip is pretty normal, but worrying about it will itself block responses.
Hear your wife when she says it’s all fine from her point of view. Make sure intercourse is one course in a varied sexual feast. Above all, stop worrying – and try and see your doctor if you need further medical help.
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