That Sharp Naija Guy: 7 Coded Ways To A Really Satisfying Valentine Day

It’s no secret that sex makes you happier – in fact, researchers recently found that people who had sex at least once a week were 44 percent more likely to be happy than people who didn’t get down at all.But with all that need to have sex comes the urge to have a bit of variety. Variety, be it in ‘babes’ , scenes, locations and of course positions. Fortunately, there’s plenty of different configurations you and your partner can try out. Whether you’re into slow and steady, fast and furious, anal sex positions or great ways to play orally, you’ll find them incredibly useful and you will thank me later.1. Missionary position: This is the most famous and classic of all sex positions. The eye contact, the mild male dominance and the angle of penetration make this a popular one, and odds are, the first time you had sex was in a missionary position. A very comfortable position that allows for easy thrusting, and an easy pull-out for a sharp guy. There’s plenty of benefits to it and it’ll work its way into basically any sexual encounter you find yourself in, at some point.2. Face-sitting: Thiscan be very hot because it adds an extra element of dominance and submissiveness to your oral play. Have your partner lie on her back; she can prop up her head either using a pillow or leaning her shoulders against the wall. Then, thrust into her mouth. It’s a good idea to go gently here because you could make this uncomfortable otherwise. Work with her body language and cues to figure out your rhythm and how deep you can go.3. Doggy-style: This is one of the favorite sex positions of millions of Nigerians and people for a few reasons. It’s the classic female submissive position and really lets the man be in control, and there’s more than a few variations on it. In its simplest form, you kneel on the bed, with your girl on all fours. Enter her from behind, and hold onto her hips and/or torso. You can decide to go slow or hard. If you want to add some roughness, and your girl is into that, this position is solid for pulling on hair or spanking as well, to add to the general submissiveness of the position. If you have a free hand, a clitoral reach-around or playing with her breasts can add extra stimulation to the position.4. Reverse Cowgirl: A classic, the reverse cowgirl puts the man on the bottom and has the woman straddling him facing away. She can control the angle of penetration here, and the man gets a great view of her from behind. If you want to change things up, arch your knees up to give her something to easily push off of. If you want to make eye contact and get a view of her from the front, a mirror could also be your friend here, although the “no eye contact” is one of the perks of this as well.5. Legs on Shoulders: A classic take on missionary, this one can either be done with you lying down on top of her, or with her positioned at the edge of the bed and with you in standing (or more accurately leaning in) with her legs on your shoulders as you penetrate her. This position gives the man all of the control of penetration, but it will also allow you to penetrate more deeply, so it’s f a win-win. You may need to grasp her legs and pull in gently to prevent your thrusting from pushing her away from you.6. Coital Alignment Technique: This position is also helpful in performing better sex as it requires your partner to lie on bed and you on top of her between her legs. Go towards your partners head so that your pelvis is little bit higher than her body. Now instead of thrusting in and out, try to focus on grinding her against her pelvis. This is one of best position for many women. When your partner changes the position then her pelvis allows your pubic bone to rub against her clitoris and it delivers the exact stimulation many women want. This position works for those women also who are shy in trying those positions. This position is very easy to use and does not require any hard work and also low stress at same time. If you want to enjoy better then tell your partner to use her hand to spread the labia apart so that your body rub against your partner’s clitoris. Even, putting a pillow while having sex on your partner’s hips will be more beneficial angle.7. Girl on Top: Probably the second position you’ll have learned after “missionary,” there’s more than a few reasons why girl on top is arguably the favorite sex position in the world. You get to lie back and get a simply wonderful view of your girl moving up and down; she gets excellent clitoral stimulation and a lot of control of depth and penetration. This is arguably the quickest way for a girl to get an orgasm, although quite a bit more difficult for you in that position. Use your free hands to massage her breasts, and if you want to add an element of dominance despite your position on the bottom, you can place your fingers gently around her neck.Photo Credit: Getty


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