Don’t be another Saga, Reasons Why Nigerian Women Don’t Like Emotional men…I have heard a lot over the last couple days, men asking what exactly do women want? It is popular to hear women say, that Nigerian men are not romantic, they bottle up their emotional, they are not vulnerable, most Nigerian guys love to form machismo, and be “forming bad guy”.
But yet the BBNaija housemate Saga has been very emotional about his feelings to Nini on the popular BBNaija Reality TV show, and rather for him to get support for embracing his emotional and vulnerable nature he has rather got more of the stick. He has been called names like foolish, stupid “Mumu”, dunce and many other demeaning words.
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This has left agasp as in how the very same people that ask for men to be more vulnerable are the very one insulting a guy who is showing his emotion and being comfortable in expressing his emotions.
This very glaring truth has left to believe that the Nigerian women are the real problem and are only getting what the want and deserve in the Nigerian men because truth be told Nigerian single women and girls today are the married women and mothers tomorrow who will train the future Nigerian husbands on how not to be emotional, invulnerable using their popular slogan “be a man”, “man up”. So as a sharp guy below are 5 reasons you need to work with and why Nigerian women don’t like nor want emotional men;
- They See Emotional as Weakness:
Nigerian women and the Nigerian society has configured their mindset, that a man who is emotional and vulnerable in public is a sign of weakness. And they usually want a man that can take charge and be in-control. So do not show flint of being emotional to them in public, bottle it up and only show it to them in private. They love it when you cry for them alone in the room. Best bet show neither just have plenty money.
- Emotional Guys Are Not Seen As Leaders:
Nigerian women are a big sway when it comes to machismo and charisma, so emotional guys usually to them don’t qualify as one who can be seen as a leader. Every Nigerian woman, well if not every most of them love and want to see their man as a leader both in the house and in the society and as such must constantly put on the look and cloak of confidence even when he is dying and has no whiff of what he is doing.
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- They See Emotional Men as Lack of Intelligence:
Nigerian mistake and misconstrue, the idea of being bullish, brazing confidence and bravado for intelligence. So has a guy if you want to sell the idea that you’re smart to a Nigerian girl you must not come across as emotional, rather they want you being identified as a bad guy, a hard man, this sells hugely on them.
So my advise don’t be a BBNaija Ozo and Saga if you want to be a recognise player and a true Sharp Naija Guy rather be another Kiddwaya, Cross and Tobi this are the prime example of their kind of guys. So SNGees go work the magic and spread the gospel.
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