Dear Aunty Aurora,
My fiancé admitted cheating on some of his exes. I’m a girl of 27, he’s 31 and we’ve been dating for a year.
I’ve no reason to think he’s been unfaithful to me but I can’t get the thought out of my head. If anyone shows a glimmer of interest in him, I feel paranoid and anxious. I’ve started obsessing about a particular woman he once agreed was fit. I imagine them together and it’s driving me crazy. Yemisi, Alagbado – Lagos.
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His cheating on previous partners doesn’t mean he will cheat on you. It sounds like you have a good relationship, though you are struggling to trust him.
Talk to him. Perhaps your insecurity dates back to childhood? Maybe you didn’t feel secure or felt rejected.Photo Credit: Getty