Dear Aunty Aurora,
I am having sex with my stepfather’s sister and I think I might be in love with her. I’m a 30-year-old guy and my parents split up when I was little. My mum remarried when I was a young boy and my stepfather is a good man.
He’s 59 and my mum is 55. My stepfather’s sister is 49 and divorced with 2 kids, but she looks half her age. She was at a recent family memorial in our hometown in the east. I hadn’t seen her for about five years but when I was a teenager she was always flirting with me. At the event, she sat next to me and was quizzing me about my sex life. Her hand moved higher and higher up my thigh where nobody could see it.
As we were in town for the weekend, we met up for around five times for sex. It was always wild and she is one experienced lady. We’ve been sexting since and getting on great. I’m not married and she’s been coming to my apartment after work and weekend for sex. I think I might be in love with her as she’s by far the best woman I’ve ever been with. Should I make things official with her? Is it wrong to have sex with my stepfther’s sister? Thank you. Anthony, Magodo, Lagos
Dear Anthony,
It’s not a great idea as it’s crossing a lot of boundaries. Technically, it’s not illegal unless she cared for you as a boy, but I doubt your family would be happy with you two getting together. You recognised her provocative style as a teenager and she’s not changed. She should have been a trusted adult in your life but she’s muddied the waters by luring you into sex, which she knows would shock all your family.
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