Hello my most esteemed SNGees, as much as we talk about how best to woo a lady, how to get in the cookie with utmost ease, today we going to take a step further and gist about those traits you must look out for in a girlfriend you intend to make your wife.
Choosing a life partner is a very touchy subject that must be made with utmost intelligence with a touch of divine grace. It is a life-changing and can as well be a life self-destructive decision if you embark on a forever and ever with the wrong person. You don’t want to be stuck with a someone that won’t make you happy or sucks away your happiness that is like sticking a ticking time bomb to your waist.
Yes I know I am going serious today, but come on this is a very important issue that must be discussed at some point. Here below are 10 traits to look out for in girlfriend you intend to make your wife.
1. She’s Nurturing
A woman who will make a good wife has to be caring and nurturing. She’s going to be majorly responsible for the well-being of you and your children. She should be kind and compassionate, willing to take care of others without grumbling.
2. She’s Dependable
A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on. She should be someone who will support her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine.
3. She’s Respectful
Disrespect is one of the major causes of marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round.
4. She’s Humble
A proud woman will encourage grudges and nothing destroys relationships faster than malice. Be wary of a woman who would always want to use sexual pleasures to bribe and manipulate you. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong.
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5. She’s emotionally stable
The woman you decide to marry should be stable emotionally and otherwise. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool. You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge.
6. She loves children
The ideal wife should love children. She should like to have them around her and willing to play with them always. This is a sign that she’ll be capable of taking care of the family you build together.
7. She can cook
She doesn’t have to be a chef but a great wife should be able to feed her family, so if your current girlfriend is a terrible cook as much as modern guys would say ehn! that doesn’t matter or determines if she’s a good girlfriend and we can always buy out or order food. I pity such guys you because in the long run they end-up becoming abjectly miserable.
8. You have a lot in common
It can be the same kind of music or the same hobbies or even just a love of books. If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.
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9. You have great communication
There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in. Once your current girlfriend finds it hard to express herself rather she says really hurtful things and she finds it hard to apologise rather she says you nag because you talk about it, my brother run.
10. You can laugh together
Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see the humour in the little things and can have a laugh together.
Choose a woman who can communicate are feelings, choose a woman who understands her own feelings and understands you too, be with a woman that makes conscious efforts to make you happy just as much as you do too.
Above all, you must remember that there’s no such thing as a perfect person so there can’t be a perfect wife. Love is about accepting that person you’ve chosen even with all their flaws and deciding to love them no matter what. But remember to choose wisely
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