Nigerian businesswoman Aisha Yesufu and writer and counsellor Bolatito Bez-Idakula, popularly known as Tito Idakula for short have disagreed with people who are teaching others to live a private life, using Simi and Adesua’s marriage and baby stories as instances.
Nigerian Sportscaster Sarafina Napoleon had taken to the streets of Twitter to suggest that the acts of the two amazing Nigerian celebrities are pure wisdom which is profitable to direct. KOKO’s 2020 Woman of The Year Aisha Yesufu, however does not agree with her and insists on her mantra of leaving people to do them.
Taking the conversation to Instagram to react, the pissed Tito Idakula noted that everything in life is a choice and people should be left alone to do it the way they want. “THIS POST PISSED ME OFF!! I had to bring this here to address something. This is putting blame on families who have experienced painful losses. Everyone has a CHOICE. Many people hid their pregnancies and still had painful losses. Many shared and have beautiful healthy babies. Simi even announced her pregnancy and inspired so many women to find joy during a sensitive season”, she began Read also: #BeLikeNgoziChallenge Is About The Brain Not Clothes – Actress Uche Ogbodo Schools Nigerians
“That she chose not to announce the birth of her baby was her CHOICE, same with Adesua. Everything is a choice but messages like these are subtly placing blame on people who are already grieving and struggling with guilt in one way or the other. Please let us STOP IT! It is hardly EVER a woman’s fault when she has a miscarriage or a baby loss and that is something doctors always say! Please please please, if we can’t be supportive or encouraging, let us just keep these opinions that are filled with blame and shame to ourselves! Thank you!”, Tito Idakula added and furiously dropped the microphone.