That Sharp Naija Guy: 6 Reasons Why Naija Girls Like Dating Older Men “Sugar Daddy”

Welcome back SNG fans, So this week we’ve have chosen to talk about “Sugar Daddy” romance, it is actually not a new phenomenon, a lot of young girls in Nigeria have taken akin to it most especially the so called “Slay Queens” who i call the next level of prostitution, they just don’t stand by road-sides or in brothels their IG and Snapchat pages are there shops where they set-up and advertise there Goodies. Lately in the entertainment scene we’ve experienced a lot of Nigerian Young female entertainers get hooked or married by older men, with a lot dho “Money” to spend on their lifestyle. So we decided to talk with some of this ladies and understand why they’ve chosen to be with older men and here are the top 6 reasons we were able to decipher from there replies; enjoy

  1. They are more experienced and cultured: So one of the very first point they all raised was that, they are more mature and understand that things don’t always happen the way they want them to and so they are more understanding and patient with their partners. They know what they want and they go for it. They are very confident and so they carry themselves very well, especially in public. They are generally well-mannered. They have been to several places in the past and so they know a lot of things about other cultures.
  2. They are more financially stable: Most women look for men who can support/contribute to them financially. It is all about practicality. When you start a family, for example, it is important that the man is able to provide security. A self-sufficient woman will not easily settle for anyone who doesn’t earn at all. For some women in the poorer regions however, they seek out men who are capable of supporting himself because they are the ideal partner. They will not settle for a man who has no job because life is already difficult for them as it is and can’t afford additional mouths to feed.Now, from a logical perspective, a typical guy in his late 20s will have fewer savings, less wealth, and fewer assets accumulated compared to what he’ll become 20 years later. That is considering that he continued to work and save as he gets older. In this regard, an older man has enough assets and money in the bank to support a family. This is why some women go for men who have stable jobs instead of those who are still generally starting with their career when they are planning to start a family. Well putting it in clearer terms women love a man with plenty of “Dho In The Bank”, and enough in hand to spend…
  3. They are better at pleasing women: Older men have had their fair share of both short-lived and more stable relationships, and this gives them a bit of an advantage when it comes to handling relationships. Their previous experiences have helped them learn what women generally want and what makes women happy.Not only do they know more in bed, but they also understand women a little bit better. They are also more sensitive to their partner’s needs. Older men tend to be more romantic as well. They have a good sense of humor that does not involve shaming their friends or other destructive behavior.
  4. They are looking for more serious relationships: Men mature much later than women, and normally middle age in men is the age of maturity. This is where they seek a more stable and healthy relationship. This is the age where they usually have pieced their life altogether, and they are now ready for a more serious and deeper commitment. Women who are tired of short-lived and immature relationships can find a more satisfying and more stable relationship with an older guy than a guy in his late 20s for example. Younger men are still at an age where they love to explore and try different things before settling on something more serious.So, if a girl feels that she is ready to tie the knot, or if she is ready for a serious commitment and ready to start a family, a younger man in his late 20’s is just not the right person for her.
  5. They have a more sophisticated taste: When it comes to the finer things in life like wine, food, beer, traveling, and clothes, older men tend to choose the better quality ones. First, they can afford it (Because they’ve the Dho to buy it remember that ) and second, they just know that it is good. They also know that when it comes to food and drinks, quality does not always come with a hefty price. You don’t need to eat at a 5-star restaurant to be able to enjoy your food. You can find an affordable place that serves 5-star quality food and drinks with much better service as well. We rarely go to expensive restaurants because food there is not always satisfying especially when you can both cook nice food. When traveling, older men avoid touristy places because they know that they won’t get authentic products for the right price and they won’t be able to enjoy the scenery with the entire crowd roaming around. They are happy to sit in one corner where you can have all the views for yourself. Now that takes careful planning, timing, and experience. Older men as experienced travellers, know that.
  6. Psychological and biological reasons: There are a few psychological and biological reasons why women are attracted to older men, particularly women on the younger side who are still in their 20s or early 30s. From an evolutionary perspective, men can remain fertile longer, and thus an older man who has survived has accumulated more resources than a younger man. The fact that the man has made it that far in life also is a clue that he has good genetics and robust health, making him a desirable mate. Remember, that in prehistoric times men would not live all that long, so the ones that did were more likely to pass on their genes. Photo Credit: Getty

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