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That Sharp Naija Guy: 5 Reasons Why That Babe Is Ghosting You
Once someone does not find you interesting enough, they just ghost on you. Ghosting is when someone stops talking or chatting with you suddenly, without explanation; it could be after a first date or before, it could also be online ghosting; this usually happens in talking stages and situationships. Being ghosted can be very painful; […]
Once someone does not find you interesting enough, they just ghost on you. Ghosting is when someone stops talking or chatting with you suddenly, without explanation; it could be after a first date or before, it could also be online ghosting; this usually happens in talking stages and situationships. Being ghosted can be very painful; you begin to wonder what could have gone wrong; you ask yourself, ‘did I do something wrong. 
Here are a few reasons why you may have been ghosted;
1. Inability to hold conversations
Many people dislike persons who are bad conversationalists; one reason you may have been ghosted may be as a result of this. Find common interests that may spark a connection between both of you and let conversations spring from there.
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2. Bad English
Another reason you may have been ghosted is if you have always had difficulty speaking or writing well in English. Do you abbreviate unnecessarily like the remaining letters of the alphabets on your keyboard are in a fight? Maybe just maybe, that’s why you were ghosted. Check yourself, dears. 
3. Lack of Interest
It hurts that most people find it easier to ghost on you rather than tell you that they are not interested. Sometimes you may not be at fault, and it could be the other party’s.
4. Red flags
Sometimes, red flags are enough reason to ghosting on people, moving on silently without explaining. If you are toxic, selfish or manipulative, or negative in any way, people would definitely ghost you because of your attitude. 
5. No good sense of humour
If you lack a good sense of humour, best believe you will be ghosted, especially if you are conversing with someone who loves memes and sarcasm. Imagine having to explain every joke and sarcastic comment; it gets tiring. To avoid that, the person may just ghost on you.
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In the real sense of it, ghosting on people is not ideal; it leaves so many questions in the hearts of the other party. If you ever stop talking to someone, tell them with your chest. 
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