That Sharp Naija Guy: 4 Sharp Ways To Make A Lady Want To Have Sex With You

  1. Make Her Feel Sexually Attracted To You And How You Interact With Her:
    The more ways that you are able to make a woman feel attracted to you when interacting with her, the more intense her sexual desire will be.
    Two examples of how to make a woman feel attracted to you during an interaction are to, Be masculine, In your energy, vibe, conversation style, behaviour and body language to the point where she feels girly (or as some women refer to it as, “feels like a real woman”) in your presence. Flirt with her, Flirting creates a spark between you and a woman when you meet her and it’s also one of the things that keeps the spark alive in a relationship. When interacting with a woman for 5 minutes, you can easily set off 5, 10, 15 or even 20 different attraction triggers. When you make her feel attracted in many different ways at once, she naturally feels sexually attracted to you and will experience a strong desire to have sex with you. However, if you interact with a woman and are unknowingly turning her off in 5-20 different ways, then she isn’t going to feel much or any desire to have sex with you. A woman’s attraction is mostly based on what you say and do in her presence. The more intense her desire to have sex with you will be. That’s how attraction works for women. As a Sharp Naija guy, you have to actively make a woman feel attracted to you when you interact with her. Don’t expect her to feel attracted on her own for some random or magical reason. You’ve got to actively turn her on by what you say and do around her.
  2. Make It Very Clear That You Find Her Sexual AttractiveThis is an essential thing to do when meeting a woman for the first time, getting to know her and when in a relationship. According to the Dove Cosmetics international survey on beauty, 96% of women do not consider themselves to be beautiful. Strange, but true! Why are modern women so insecure about their beauty?; When a woman compares herself to the perfectly Photoshopped and airbrushed images of women in advertisements or to the sexy women in Magazines or on social media, she realizes that she doesn’t look that good without make up or when she isn’t dressed up in a sexy outfit. She knows what she looks like when she is at home alone or when she wakes up and she feels like it doesn’t compare to how women in advertisements and some social media personality. Even if a woman seems like she is confident about her appearance, statistically speaking (96%), she isn’t. I also know from personal experience that even if a woman thinks she is pretty, she will almost always have insecurities about certain parts of her face or body (e.g. the youthfulness of her skin, her weight, breast size, butt size, etc). You might look at her and sincerely believe that she is beautiful, but she is thinking, “Hhh…I hate my thighs…I’ll never be as sexy as the women who have perfect legs.” So, don’t assume that she knows she is beautiful. In most cases, women feel inadequate for various reasons that they will rarely, if ever, discuss with men. When a woman is having sex with you, she wants to feel truly sexy in your eyes.
  3. Sexual Tension:  Sometimes, a woman will be horny and ready for sex without you having to do anything to get her in the mood. Yet, in almost all cases, most women need you to turn them on by building up the sexual tension between you, Whether you are meeting a woman for the first time, trying to get out of the friend zone with a woman you have a crush on or are 20 years into a marriage, the same rule applies. Women LOVE the exciting feeling of releasing built up sexual tension with kissing and sex. So, don’t ignore the power of sexual tension when it comes to sex!, When you build up sexual tension correctly, a woman not only wants to have sex with you, but she also feels like she NEEDS to have sex with you to release the built up tension between you. Sex becomes something that she really wants to do with you. She feels the tingle down there and wants to get you inside. However, if there isn’t much or any sexual tension present between you and a woman (e.g. you haven’t been actively making her feel attracted to you while interacting with her, she only sees you as a friend.
  4. Turn Her On With Your Touch:

    Give her a charming handshake when you introduce yourself. Hold her hand firmly, but gently and maintain eye contact as you keep holding her hand for about 5 seconds while you introduce yourself, “Hey, my name’s Dan – I thought I’d come over and say hello to you…you’re easily the most beautiful woman in the room.” She will feel turned on by the fact that you were relaxed, confident and didn’t rush to let go of her hand. Doing this is a display of confidence and masculinity that will immediately make her feel girly in your presence. Then, the fact that you also gave her a compliment makes her see you as a charming guy. Give her a Goodbye Hug. When you are parting ways, say, “Okay, I feel like a hug today. Give me a Goodbye Hug” and then hug her warmly for a few seconds. Then as you exit the hug, say (in a masculine way), “Ooh, I like hugging you” and with a confident smile, add in, “You’re sexy. I like you.”…. The previous point was for just getting a girl, But the next one is for those who already have the lady as a friend but can’t spark the intimacy that could lead to sexy, One way to do that, is to invite her out or over to your place after probably having a meal together and talking you turn a movie make her feel cozy, then bring her in for a hug and tell her to relax with you for a minute. Then, begin to touch and caress her very slowly all over her body (don’t rush), don’t go for her boobs first nor her Backside start with a gentle touch on her arm her shoulder her waist. She may resist your attempts to get her in the mood if she doesn’t feel like it in that moment, but if you keep telling her that she is beautiful, attractive and sexy (e.g. “I think you’re so sexy and the most beautiful lady have ever met in my life! And I want to be you”) and kiss her softly on the side of her neck and just under her ear, she will warm up to it. Keep touching her all over her body and expressing your desire for her. Your touch and your desire for her will begin to turn her on. Photo Credit: Getty

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