Allo ah, so yeah the love doctor is back this week with new salient tips on how to keep a Sidechick without, the Main Chick find out nor the does the Sidechick suspect that she is just a Sidechick.
Though the love doctor loves women and is a preacher of acting accordingly in a relationship, treating your woman right and loving her unconditionally. But I would just be a hypocrite and a pretender who as chosen to cast a blind eye to the truth.
Yes guys/men have always had Sidechicks and would continue to, so I have taken it upon my self to advice guys on how to maintain both sides until they are ready to pick or meet the woman of their life that completes them, but before then these are the 5 tips to know and use to successfully keep a Sidechick;
- She Never Met Your Friends
If you like a girl, but she doesn’t yet qualify as the main chick or you have a main chick and you want to keep this new girl on the side, then don’t let her meet your friends or get involved with your inner circle.
Do not invite her to hangouts with friends, go out alone with her, go dates alone with her, go see a movie but don’t ever let her meet the dudes except if you trust your dudes with your life. So you know you can’t show her off just yet until you probably decide to pick her over the main chick and she becomes the main chick.
2. Be Careful With Photos Of Both Of You
Photos are very incriminating and are a very strong piece of evidence, so when you’ve a Sidechick and you both go out she would at some point want to take pictures with you, so be careful if you can help it avoid taking pics with your Sidechicks or take the pictures in ways that are less suspicious and when you do keep them in places where they can’t be found or seen easily.
So don’t allow her to take selfies with you and warn her not to repost any of this post on social media.
3. Go on Dates:
Married couples are even advised to go on dates to spice up their relationship. Within the first six months of dating, couples who have spent more time together would know that going out together and having fun together as well is very important. The advice here never take your Sidechick to somewhere your Mainchick could go to have fun too.
4. He Doesn’t Open Up:
Open up to her more, don’t lie about things say very little make her feel comfortable, make her feel she is the main girl, then all of a sudden reduce the connection again pull back then restart it all over again.
Don’t shut her down whenever she tries to be emotional with you so that she doesn’t get suspicious but make sure it has a limit
5. She doesn’t sleepover:
There are some nights that things might get steamy and one thing will lead to another. If you really like someone, there is no big deal to sacrifice a night sleeping in your bed.
However, if she never spends a night in your bed, it’s because you’re not exclusive. This is what makes a difference between a girlfriend and a side chick. Photo Credit: Getty