Nollywood actress Dayo Amusa has spoken women out of what she called mediocrity, giving reasons why men go back to their exes.
In an Instagram post where the actress shared a series of picture texts, she asserted that men’s ego is damaged when they see that a woman they left is doing better without them, and then wants to have control over her again.
“He sees that you are happy without him, and his ego is damaged. This will often cause him to reach out in hopes of trying to dictate your emotions to strengthen his ego. He notices that you appear to be doing better and may believe that you’re beginning to move on. This belief prompts him to reach out in fear. When you successfully move on, it’ll make it harder for him to return.
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“He’s testing you to see if it is indeed possible to abandon you and return whenever he wants to. He’s priming you for an extended rollercoaster of emotions. If he knows that he can hurt you, disrespect you, neglect you, then leave and decide when he’ll return, then he’ll most definitely continue to do it in hopes of continually breaking you down. The more you let him back in, the harder it is for you to move on”, she submitted.