That Sharp Naija Guy: The 4 Things To Do To Get Out Of The Friend-Zone

There’s nothing worse than getting put into the friend zone by a girl you like. Instead of dating her, you have become her buddy in the Naija sense she starts calling you her “Assistant Boyfriend”. You’ve become a therapist and a shoulder to cry on, the guy she runs to when the main boyfriend is acting up, Oh damn!!. Here are some valuable tips that will help you to get out of that pathetic Zone Called, The Friend zone with a girl you like.

  1. Take Break Away From Her:

First, you’re going to have to spend a lot less time with her for a while. The reason you need a break from her is because it’s hard to change the frame from friend to sexual, it’s going backwards so that you can three steps forwards intimately. To try and physically escalate with her at this point will feel weird to you and her. The time away from each other should help with this.

2. Hook Up With Other Girls, Ladies or Women:

Start talking to other girls while you’re trying to get out of the friend zone. Don’t set out to make her jealous, just bring more women into your life. Practice staying out of friend zone. Spend more and more time thinking about other girls and less time putting this girl on a pedestal in your mind. Becoming a more attractive guy overall and needing her less and less will help you become more attractive to her.

3. Make A Come Back And Send Mixed Signals:

After you have spent some time away from her, come back and change the frame. Next time you see her you can send mixed signals and set a new tone for escalation. You need to re-emerge as a sexual guy who wants her, but doesn’t need her. You want her in a way that does not include shopping or hearing about her boy problems.

4. Then Go For It And Be Willing To Lose Her:

Slowly go for it, but be willing to lose this girl. You obviously like her, so go for it. Get the girl? Great! She says no thanks? Fine, get away from her so she can’t affect you emotionally, but at least you can feel better inside knowing you took your best shot.  Photo Credit: Getty


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