That Sharp Naija Guy: Seven Coded Signs Your Female Friend Is Interested In You

You might have heard stories of how friends, close friends ended up dating or ended up marrying themselves. In Nigeria and globally, the truth is that the best relationships are those that you never saw coming. They normally are based on a strong friendship bond. Despite what people might tell you, men and women can be friends and there are multiple reasons to have a female best friend. But what is also possible is that there comes a point in your friendship when one person begins to grow romantic feelings for the other and that is something that can ruin a friendship or transform into something bigger. So, how do you know if he likes you more than a friend1. She talks to you differently than everybody else: Her body language will be a clear indication that he likes you. Listen carefully to the way she talks to you and compare it to the way she talks to hr other male friends. Does she pay more attention in your conversations? Is she flirtier? Does she laugh more, or make more jokes, or treat you more warmly?2. She can’t keep her hands off you: When a woman likes you, she’s going to want to be as close to you as possible, and that means touching you. Not in a gross, aggressive, inappropriate kind of way but in a more innocent and playful way. She’ll probably find excuses to touch you, like picking lint off your sweater, wiping an eyelash off your cheek, touching your hand when she’s telling a story, or even giving you a high-five that lingers a little too long.3. Her eyes: Her eyes will definitely betray her if she is trying to hide the fact that she has fallen for you. She constantly tries to make prolonged eye contact. This means that she stares at you whenever you are not looking or that she looks you deep in the eyes whenever you look back at her. This shows that she is so in love with you that she simply can’t control her gaze.4. She stays in touch: She will drop all other obligations to hang out with you, do you a favour, or otherwise be around you – even if you assure her it’s not necessary. Out of all her friends, she consistently prioritises you – though you might not do the same.5. She rarely talks about other men: You know she is single, attractive, and cool, and there’s no way there aren’t men who are into her, but you definitely never hear about them. And if she does mention men, it’s always with the underlying sentiment that she has not found the right one yet, except she has and it is you.6. She remembers details: So, when you’re having a rough day, she can remind you of something you said weeks ago that she can recall verbatim because everything you say means something to her because you mean something to her. Seriously, one of you has to say something soon so you can just get together and be super cute already. Do it.7. Is she Jealous? This sign is super obvious – if she hears about your love life and responds in a jealous or negative way, it’s a strong sign she likes you. This is also one of the signs that it’s the hardest to fake or conceal. The stronger her feelings for you, the stronger her reaction will be if you mention seeing someone else.Photo Credit: Getty

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