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That Sharp Naija Guy: 9 Gentleman’s Guide To Booty Call In Nigeria

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Often sex is just sex. My guy trust me, sex most times is not about hearts, shawarma, chocolate and flowers but about connecting right there, that minute, with someone who you share an attraction. Many of us (and of course thousands of those Naija girls) have been in that scenario and it can be incredibly fun. Still, there’s always been a certain negativity that our society attaches to the booty call, hookup and the one night stand.That is not only unfair, it’s unnecessary. We don’t usually marry the first girl we date, so not every sexual encounter has to be about happy ever after – sometimes it can just be about having no-strings-attached fun. Before you start shouting and pulling your hair out. This is Sharp Naija Guy not some religious write-up. As a sharp Naija guy, the ultimate key, is getting consent and being respectful. Be truthful about your intentions and remember that it’s always better to get rejected than to mislead someone and hurt them. The truth is that a lot more of Naija girls will accept to hookup with you, more than you can ever imagine, provided you are respectful, truthful and follow this coded guide – afterall body-no-be-firewood!1. Do Drink Too Much: On a night out, don’t go OTT with the drinking. Yes, drunk sex is one of those things that sounds exciting in theory, but is actually a sloppy, messy disaster.2. Don’t Be A Sleazy Or Creepy Player: Trust is an important component when it comes to taking someone home or for them to leave their home to come to yours. They have to trust you – and so do her friends.3. Maintain Your Cool: Too much emphasis on sex your conversation can take you from 0 to creepy in the matter of one sentence. Also, feeling comfortable is key: The more comfortable in the situation you are, the more comfortable she will be.4. Avoid Obvious Stupid Phrases: Guy, do not tell a Naija girl to come to your house to watch some TV or Nollywood film. By this point we all know what it really signifies, so it’s just strange to pretend otherwise.5. Na You Be The Oga, So Take The Lead: This certainly doesn’t mean be pushy, but at some point someone does have to take the initiative. If she hasn’t already but has been giving you signs indicating she’s up for it i.e. being touchy feely, suggestive or making out, ask away.6. Remove Evidence Of Other Girls: This hook up may not be a serious relationship for either one of you, but few people want to feel like a quick shag. That means if you invite her back to yours, there should be no make-up, underwear, or hairs of other girls lying around. She knows she isn’t the only one, but you don’t need to shove it in her face.7. No Rushing, Be Patient: A surefire way to seem like a creep is to rush her into sleeping with you. Let her take her time. If she goes at her own pace, you won’t have to convince her to go home with you; she’ll already have decided for herself.8. Make It An Experience: Sex should be fun – and that includes everything leading up to and after it. When she remembers her night with you, it should be an adventure. If you create an interaction that’s fun, you and her will have had a memorable shared experience, and she won’t feel like just another quickie.9. Make An Emotional Connection: Finally, sex is physical but try and get to know the girl and let her get to know you. If she tells her friends about you the next day and all she can remember is you quickly undressing her dress, she’s going to feel used. Act genuinely and make sure you both treat each other with human decency.Photo Credit: Getty

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