That Sharp Naija Guy: 5 Love Language All Smart Guys Must Know To Stay Ahead Of The Game

As a proper SNG you must this 4 love languages so as to know and help you understand how to get across all those beautiful Nigerian ladies, Know what works there buttons and gets them thrilled when in a relationship. As your very own resident love doctor without forgetting our old lessons the following love languages that would be mentioned below are meant for both parties actually, As man be smart enough to know your own love language and how to use it to your advantage. Under-listed are the 5 love languages meant to help improve your dating skills as Sharp Naija Guy:  

Words Of Affirmation: Using words to build up the other person. Once you can break the ground of expressing your feelings to the lady you intend to be in a relationship with, and she seems a bit receptive of you then that means she likes you, How to know that “Words of Affirmation” is her own love languages she would literally express her own self first through words even if she isn’t the most expressive person herself she would find a way to say it so always be on the look out for this once she does this then you know how to get to her heart what fancies her tickle in a relationship.

Quality Time: A lady who’s love language is Quality time is the type that wants to spend all day with you and really isn’t the most outgoing type even if you invite her out she would rather prefer to come over or you going over and spend the whole day indoor romping or   or by just taking a walk or doing something where both you just get to be alone sharing and creating lasting memories. By the way don’t mistake this with attention every lady/woman wants attention but not everyone of them wants to go on an art seeing date or a sunset date or just take a walk around the park rather some would want to go dancing at a club or go to a bar. Which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention. Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off talking and listening.

Gifts: For some ladies if you want to warm your way to there heart just get them a gift not necessarily for it to be expensive they would appreciate tinniest of gift. A gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.” that’s what she would tell her friends just as much as she would tell her subconsciousness and gradually you would work your way to her heart.

Physical Touch: Now this i know most SNG would love a lady like this someone who express herself or her love language is through physical touch, once she’s around you and you don’t touch she gets worried, self-conscious and feels insecure. This type of ladies are usually very expressive sexually, and are usually forward with their feelings, while some don’t mind public display of affections {PDA} holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.

Acts Of Service: I know this last one can be the one most of you all SNGs might struggle with, Doing something for your lady or a lady you’re trying to hook. To charm some ladies all you have to do is show acts of service to them that you know they would get them thinking he definitely has feelings for if not he won’t be doing so much for me, example of such service could be simply home shores like, Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service. Photo Credit: Getty


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