That Sharp Naija Guy: 5 Major Things Ladies Want From Their Man

A woman really doesn’t want much from a man. There are really only 5 things – Five qualities that she’s looking for in a life partner. Although these qualities are hard to find, they are qualities of which every man is capable. These seven things are not out of any man’s reach, yet the fact is that most lack at least one. Now, you may like to argue that no one is perfect and therefore no one has all seven of these qualities, but that’s just not true. There are plenty of men out there who are sufficient in each of these categories, not perfectly, but sufficient enough to make a woman incredibly happy. That’s all that matters, right?
1. Blind Loyalty: We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We’re competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. Her and only her. She knows she’s not the most beautiful or smartest woman in the world, but she doesn’t need to be – she’s not delusional. She just wants you to think and let her know that she’s the most beautiful and the best woman in the world for you. She needs you to think she is the best thing that ever happened to you. She wants to be the best and she wants a man who will allot her that title.
2. Attention And Understanding: Every woman wants a man who would pay unrelenting attention to her not obsession and a possessive man, but a man who she can confide in, trust and provide a listening hear to her every needs even, if You can’t provide for all her needs–be their to support her through her struggles, Now the Two of Attention to put together here because once you pay attention to her you would “Get” and Understand your woman. Having someone understand you is having someone completely know you for the person that you really are. There’s no confusion, there’s no misunderstanding or misconception. They know you for you and because they know you for the person you really are, you, in a sense, exist outside of yourself. As long as they live on, so do you.
3. Security (Financial And Literal): You don’t need to be a millionaire. Well, for some women, you very well may need to be, but hopefully you’ll only end up with one who admires the traits required for turning oneself into a millionaire and not the money alone. That’s why, i advice if you’re a broke guy don’t be in a relationship, relationships aren’t meant for broke guys. Generally speaking, the right woman will love you for you, but she does need you to make her feel secure. She wants to feel that you will protect her from physical harm. She wants to know that you’ll keep her safe, healthy and comfortable. Does she need you to keep her safe? To bring home the bread? No. But she’d like you to be capable of it – even if her salary is bigger than yours. She’ll have your back too so you can rest easier as well.4. Caring And Strength: To be cared for means not to be alone in this life. Most people are forced to care for themselves and the truth is that it’s a lot more difficult than people let on. As ladies, they aren’t always in the right mindset to care for ourselves. To top it off, that’s usually exactly when a lady needs the most caring and mentally strong man capable of holding it down for her – when she isn’t mentally or physically capable of doing it herself. She wants you to be there for her when she needs someone to care for her and support her , to be there to share her burden. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to make her life a little easier. Craziness – I know. On the upside, she’ll be there for you when no one else will. Fair enough tradeoff I think. No woman wants a physical weakling – it’s against her nature. That doesn’t mean she won’t settle for slightly less than Herculean, but you’re a man dammit. She wants to feel that when she’s in your presence. She wants you to be intelligent and to practice self-control simply because you can. We’re all still animals and women will always be attracted to the stronger men. She wants you to be strong not for the sake of being strong – she wants you to be strong for her. It brings her pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on. Do you honestly need more convincing?5. Respect: Finally, you must respect your woman that’s absolutely necessary. Respect her decisions and carry her along in your own decision-making, know when to give her space. Respect her mood swings her only, know when her monthly menstral flow comes around, how she wants to be treated during her period. This are the holy grails for a perfect relationship. You wisely. Photo Credit: Getty


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