Most Nigerian men are usually full of themselves with the belief their ladies can’t or won’t cheat on them. Well, this usually so because most of the time they’re the true cheat, maybe I shouldn’t be writing this article but just maybe I should, to help the truly loyal and faithful guys catch those cheating girlfriends.
On an average when you ask a Nigerian guy why he cheats he automatically tells you a story of his ex-girlfriend who cheated him which has either left him being paranoid and extra-careful or made him also a cheat and an outright player.
The truth is no one wants to end up looking like a fool. No guy wants to give 100% faithfulness along with emotion and financial dedication and ends up finding out he was just being played all along because of his wealth or some other gains for the girl.
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Just as much as guys cheat oh hell! ladies cheat twice more, but the difference is that most Nigerian ladies that cheat do it better and always seem to have a genuine reason for doing it.
Most of the time they do for financial gains, guys had cheated on them in the past, the guy is too busy and doesn’t have my time, while when guys cheat its either they just want to hit and run, or they just want to get the feel of starting a new relationship because they’re bored.
Either ways cheating is bad and we all agree it is. This article is to help you catch a cheating girlfriend when you have strong reasons to believe she is, below is the 3 easiest ways to catch her;
It is pretty difficult to catch a cheating girlfriend without trying some underhanded tricks. This is because women are reputed for being more careful cheats than men. And that they are more painstaking in covering their tracks. So your biggest chance would be to snoop discreetly when you get the chance – phones, browser history, call history, etc.
But then, finding your way into her mobile device itself would take some work. So good luck with that.
2. Her ‘friends’
One other way would be to get one of her friends to snitch. The jealous one or the one who might low-key have a thing for you would be the ideal one to target here. With a little attention and some probing, she should drop clues here and there that’ll lead you to the information you need.
Again, this is hinged on you finding a friend of hers who is really not her friend which might not be as easy as it sounds.
This works for catching cheating boyfriends and works for cheating girlfriends too.
Show up unexpectedly at her apartment, arrive earlier than planned from a trip or pretty much pull off surprise appearances that might enable you to catch her in the act.
But the truth here is that most of the time to catch a cheating partner usually happens at the most unexpected time even though there might have been reasons to suspect before. A revealing phone call, a mistaken message, etc could be the cheating partner’s undoing.
Also, I would love to note that catching your girlfriend cheating does not necessarily mean its the end of the relationship. Just as much as it claimed that when a guy cheats its not the end of the relationship too it should go both ways. Just move on from the negativity to something better and stronger. Photo Credit: Getty