That Sharp Naija Guy: 7 Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships

Aloha! Dear SNGee world, so today the Love Conductor has decided to reveal some of the most common lies women tell their partners in relationships. Common Lie Women Tell In Relationship

Be it an effort to spare the partner’s feelings or protect themselves, lying from time to time is something everyone does and women do it a lot in relationships.
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Yes maybe lying is something particular only your partner and to the female gender, the funny part of it all is that some of these lies are sometimes told to try to protect the egos of their man, so when you hear some of these lies don’t think too much of them and just know they meant no harm.
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But that doesn’t take away the fact that a lie is still a lie and from little white untruths to serious deceit which can be potentially detrimental to a relationship.

However truth be told, both men and women are capable of being untruthful to their significant other, they may not always do it for the same reasons;

  1. How Many People They’ve slept with:
    Unless you guy started dating since she was in secondary school, it’s likely both you and your significant other have had more than one sexual partner. Although you know this to be true, it doesn’t mean you still won’t cringe at the mention of their number of guys she’s slept with. Which is why most often than not women lie when questioned about her sexual history. Of course, both partners need to accept each other for who they are, and if someone’s judgmental based on the number, it’s probably time to move on.

    Why? Common Lies Women Tell In Relationship
  2. How Much Something cost:
    Money is always a topical issue between partners regardless of who makes more of it. So, it’s quite possible a woman may be tempted to fudge the truth as to how much that new outfit really cost. Dating coach DeAnne Lorraine told Men’s Health, “We think a man will judge us for our spending habits, and that he’ll think we’re silly or frivolous.” When it comes to money, though, it’s always best to be honest
  3. 7 Common Lies Women Tell In Relationship

    Telling her partner they’re the best she’s ever had:Wanting to please your partner in bed is only natural, and vice versa. Maybe you’re with the person you’re meant to be with for the rest of your life, and that’s great. But the truth is, this doesn’t always mean you’ll both be the best the other’s had. One woman told CafeMom she lied to her husband about him being the best sex she’s ever had. But honestly, will tell the truth in this situation really make anything better? Probably not. In this case, fibbing may be just fine.

  4. Other Men/Women She Fantasises about:

    Similar to the point above, is there really anything to gain by sharing fantasies (that don’t involve each other) in the middle of sexy time? Women’s Health points out its very possible ladies fantasize about another person while doing the deed.

    Before you go getting your undies in a twist, though, remember you can’t control your thoughts, and neither can your partner.
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  5. Having An Orgasm:
    It’s not an urban legend by any means; some women have faked an orgasm at one time or another. Regardless of the reasoning behind it, it’s still a lie. Maybe she wanted it to be over. Or, perhaps she just knew it wasn’t going to happen this time. Whatever the case, it’s possible. In fact, according to Men’s Health, 48% of women have faked the big O.
  6. How Much Are Ex Really Meant To Her:
    Most women never actually full disclose how much their ex meant to them, or how close they were because of the feeling that you might get jealous or feel less appreciated so they always beat-up your person and downplay the role of the ex in their life or their importance.

    7 Common Lies Women Tell In Relationship
  7. Your Sexual prowess:
    This is a very sensitive issue but theirs no better way to say it but most of the time ladies usually lie about the sexual prowess of their partners. Especially when the relationship is still very young fresh in the hope that they might get better at it along the way or they might intend to put you through on how to improve. That is if she is experienced enough and not one to just lie there and make you do all of the hard work. Photo Credit: Getty

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