Monday, October 25, 2021

Relationship: How To Tell Him You Want His Kisses Down Low

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They say all’s fair in love and war, but when it comes to going down, things just aren’t. A quick survey of most guys reveal that over half of them do receive oral sex but don’t return the favour. And if you are a woman who appreciates the importance of some Southside action, that statistic can be pretty traumatic. Most women even consider this act as not just erotic – but as the most loving, involved between love partners. But do not despair, good news is here (the rhyming was intentional).Most guys (after the initial reflex rejection), actually do admit that they wouldn’t mind going down on their partners if it meant that much to them. Their problem is ignorance. Others claim it is the fear of the unknown while others say they are not confident they will get it right and so they bother not to try. And we do know how much boys hate failure. So what are the tactics that veteran ladies of old have used to convert their men into their oral slaves?1. Lock him down. A guy’s going to be way more willing to do it if you’re his girlfriend as opposed to a semi-regular hookup.
2. Use positive reinforcement. Make him feel like a sex god. Maybe he’s great in bed. Maybe his vocal cords do more work in bed than his thrusts. Either way, you don’t want to make him feel like you need him to go downtown to enjoy him. You wouldn’t like it if a guy told you he wanted a blow job because the sex sucks. It’s just not nice.
3. Suggest 69. Some guys get stage fright when they’re put on the spot. Think about it. Usually with sex, both of you are doing it together. When he goes down on you, you’re enjoying and he’s doing all the work. He could just be freaking himself out. Help him feel less self-conscious with a little 69 action. He’ll be distracted by your mouth and you’ll soon be distracted by his.
4. Let him think it was his decision. Eventually, it’ll be a decision he becomes more comfortable with in the future. Even if you had to ask him to do it the first time, make sure he feels like there was no pressure in his decision. Make sure to tell him it was amazing afterwards (hopefully it was) and then you won’t have to ask him ever again.
5. Don’t act like it’s expected. If he is in bed with you and you started nodding down toward your fun zone as if to say, “There it is, boy–you know what to do. Go on,” I can promise you that the man would feel at his most degraded at that point.6. Dont asphyxiate him. You may be having fun when he goes down, but that’s no excuse to firmly stuff his face down with your hands and suffocate him in the heat of the moment.
7. Trim the bushes and keep it fragrant. Unless your man likes a lot of hair down there, keep the hair to a bare minimum like a line of landing strip or get a Brazilian wax. He’ll love spending time with his face against your smooth, moist skin. Also use fragrant body oils or use a flavored lube when you get into bed. Don’t use it all over your body, just use it where you want his attention.
8. Let him see your satisfaction. When he goes near your vajajay, gasp and moan softly like you’re experiencing a lot of pleasure even if he’s doing nothing to it and just playing with your navel. Raise your pelvis to let him know that there’s a sweeter, fragrant spot just below that would bring you more pleasure.9. Be coy and shy. When he goes down there, be coy and demure about it. Don’t get overexcited. Play it easy and let him know that you’re enjoying it. Run your hand through his hair and if he seems comfortable about it, guide him around with your hands gently and moan to let him know if you like something he’s doing.
10. Don’t be selfish. This is basic etiquette. If you want him to go down on you, you need to go down on him and give him a good time. If he isn’t taking a lead, you can go down first and wait for him to thank you back by lying on your back and allowing his tongue to wander all over you.
11. Thank him for it. Let your man know that you enjoy it when he goes down there. Sometimes, your man may not realize how good it makes you feel just because he doesn’t care if you go down on him. Thank your man for going down on you without making it seem like you’re manipulating him to make it a routine because you enjoyed it.Photo Credit: Getty

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