Relationship: 5 Things Men Desperately Want You To Do In The Bedroom

There are plenty of bedroom-beliefs about what men want. Yep, they probably want a good tongue-lashing – I mean ‘oral’ not an argument. But who doesn’t?

And they might want to coax you into anal sex having seen so much of it in porn. While the porn star says in a fake sexy voice, “Ooh that feels so good!” You’re thinking, “Ouch!” But there are plenty of fairly ‘ordinary’ things they secretly want too. Many simply won’t ask for these usually because they think it’ll sound silly. Here are five things he probably really wants you to do…1. Take The Lead: They want you to take the lead. So many men hate initiating sex all the time. They end up feeling they’re pressuring a partner. They really want you to hint subtly that you’re in the mood. Or not so subtly – grabbing them and saying: I fancy the pants off of you and want you now.2. Big Your Man Up: Men love it when you ‘big them up’ in the bedroom. Yes, they want loads of compliments during the deed! When we always assume it’s women who thrive on compliments. So tell him how you love it when he flips you over into Doggy position. Or when he kisses you passionately. Or when he does as a jokey Full Monty strip around the bedroom for you.3. Respect When He’s Silent During Sex: Respect it if they go silent during sex. Some men, when concentrating on reaching climax, go quiet. And at this point they probably want you to go silent too. You see, some need intense concentration just before climax. It’s a myth they want you hollering, “More, more, more baby!” in their ear at all points during sex.4. Give Your Man’s Manhood A Nickname: Have fun nicknaming their manhood or them. Most men secretly love it when you give them sexy nicknames for their manhood like ‘the jackhammer’ or call them things like ‘Captain Stud’. It plays into how they see themselves sexually – a bit of a sex bomb. And that you see it too.5. Don’t Talk Too Much  About The Erection Mishap: Don’t be direct if they’re not erect. Lots confide they hate it when you want to have a serious chat (even though you’re trying to be loving!) about them not being able to sustain an erection. Or are unable to get it up in the first place. They’d much rather keep it chilled at that moment. And talk about it at a later time – not when what they see as ‘failure’ is fresh in their mind.Photo Credit: Getty

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