Nigerian TV show host, Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori, popularly known as Kie Kie has stated that the idea of being married or having children should not be something worth celebrating as it is not an achievement.
Sharing her views on her Instagram page, she wrote that while marriage and having kids are blessings from God, they are not the yardstick for how successful one turns out.
She asked people to focus on themselves and getting to the peak of life. She also advised them not to use other’s marriages as a model for theirs, as they might not be aware of the facade behind the smiles and laughter.
Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori wrote, “Being married is not an achievement! Having children is not an achievement either!
“These things are blessings! Only given by God! It has nothing to do with how intelligent, famous or successful you are!
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“And for these reasons you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance in these fields or your overall success level in life.
“Nobody’s marriage is goals! I repeat, NOBODY’S MARRIAGE is goals!! God is the one scoring your own goals! FOCUS ON YOU!!!!” Bukunmi wrote.
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