Nigerian gospel singer Bukola Bekes has advised married people and singles who will sooner or later tie the knot in matrimony on how and what marriage should be, how to have a happy home and the things to let go of if a happy home is one’s desire.
The music minister said these and more in some Instagram post she put out on her Instagram post, sharing some pictures of herself and her husband Damilola Bekes, who is also a music minister, a saxophonist and an Aerophonist. 
Beginning from the things to do to be happily married, both partners must learn to divorce pride, insecurities, impatience, the past, anger, bitterness, sin, and resentment. “To be happily married, you must divorce pride, insecurities, impatience, the past, anger, bitterness, sin, and resentment many many times but never your spouse”, she began. “I believe you know that satan is called the great deceiver, not because he is great in any way, but because he has been in the game for a long time. He knows when to step out and when to stand still. He is like a lion, prowling, lurking, waiting for a vulnerable moment to devour your marriage. It is so important to know that your marriage is on Satan’s hit list. Your marriage has a target on it.”
Read also: “Family Problem Is Nobody’s Business”, Paul Okoye Addresses Divorce
” He hates you. He hates your marriage. And he hates God’s plan for your marriage. That is why it is so important to be intentional about standing on the Word of God! We as God’s Army always have to be on guard. We must be prepared to fight. We must call on the name of Jesus! We must lay our marriages in His hands! Because though our enemy is out for us, he is no match for our God. However, it’s up to us to cling to God through the valley or to fall for Satan’s falsified joy ride to the mountain top that leads to regret and heartbreak. Choose Jesus! “And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.” Psalm 50:15 KJV @damilolabekes my complete package ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ #marriagestillworks #marriagementor”, she added.
In another post, Bukola Bekes then spoke on hoiw marriages should be. “Enjoy Your Marriage Marriage was God’s idea. God intended for man and woman to be together since the beginning of creation. He wanted to make something great out of it. Marriage can be awesome and incredible. Sometimes, it can be difficult, but it can be enjoyable and amazing at the same time. The Bible teaches us to enjoy life and our marriage. “To enjoy” means to take pleasure or satisfaction in the possession or experience of something. It also means to live in happiness. When we start enjoying something, we start seeing it differently”, she wrote.
Read also: We Will Last, Stop Worrying About My Me And My Husband- Anita Joseph Replies IG User
“We might eat a similar meal every day, and it can feel boring and bland, but when we decide to start seeing it as a blessing of God, we will begin to enjoy it. We can see our spouse every day and not get tired of them if we decide to see them differently every day. There is one primary thing we need to make sure we are doing well in our lives, especially in our marriage the number one relationship in our lives should be the one we have with Jesus Christ. From our relationship with Him will spring every other relationship we have. This means in order to enjoy our relationship with our spouse, we need to learn to enjoy having a relationship with the Lord.”
“When Jesus it’s in a family, it’s a happy home. Marriage should be fun. It is something we are supposed to really enjoy. Why not try to look at it from that perspective? I want you to have fun thinking about marriage and the things that come with it. Men and women think and feel differently by the way we see things or communicate. Understanding differences can make our marriage grow and be more interesting. Try and find something different you like or appreciate about your spouse every morning when you wake up.”
TRENDING VIDEO OF THE DAY: FUNKE AKINDELE SPEAKS ON FAILED MARRIAGE Photos Credit: Instagram
