Aunty Aurora, My Wife Has Become An ‘Orobo’ After Our Son’s Birth And Her Size Is Making Sex Miserable

Dear Aunty Aurora, I’ve been married for four years and I do love my wife but I can’t seem to last long enough in bed. She’s 34 and I’m 42. My wife is a lovely person but has become so overweight after given birth to our daughter that it makes sex awkward for me. We do it on average just every two weeks so I feel like I should make it great. The major problem is that I last for a minute or so and then it’s all done. You don’t have to tell me it isn’t long enough but I don’t know what to do. My wife is very sensitive on the subject of her weight. It’s not that she isn’t attractive, just not very mobile in bed. Thanks. Babajide, Ikorodu-Lagos.Dear Babajide: Infrequent sex can mean sexual tension builds up and it’s that which is making you finish too fast. You need to know how men can last longer but your wife’s weight seems to be part of the cause. If it affects her mobility then her health is at risk. Tell your wife you’re worried for her and she must see her doctor.Photo Credit: Getty

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