Popular Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama has enthused that one of the hardest things to do is to leave a toxic relationship or marriage.
She said the reason for this is because oftentimes, the person might lose themself and everything they stand for in the relationship.
Taking to her Instagram page, she said that leaving is not always easy and automatic.
She wrote “Leaving a Toxic marriage/ relationship is Hard; I personally couldn’t leave cause I had lost myself in the marriage beguiled by religion & culture Leaving is not automatic.
“Here are some tips based on my life experiences…….
… Find a reliable friend to confide in ( don’t be like me, l was confiding in one of his sides.“… Get specialist support, you can pop into a local charity ‘drop in’ center. Searching online can be risky cause your partner can track your online searches…
Victoria Inyama wrote “…Keep a record of events, abusive incidents, evidence of your Partner’s behaviour safely, Time, dates, names & how you felt, record then transfer to a USB stick & keep safe. .. Know your civil & legal rights!! ( don’t be bamboozled like l was)….Financial Independence…. save, put money away if possible.
“It’s hard cause l know that well. ……Make/ have copies of passports, birth certificates, marriage certificates, You can keep these outside the house, maybe a neighbour or trusted friend …PLSSSSS DIAL 999, ALWAYS CALL THE POLICE ( Don’t be like me always calling Pastors )…Also teach your children how to call 999….. or call 101 to report Non emergency… Victoria Inyama wrote.
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