Every Sharp Naija guy at some point in his life has dreamed of becoming the legendary “player”, the man who has the abundant choice of women the “ladies man” you dig. In today’s world, so many resources are available on how to become a player. So why aren’t there more men out there with the women they want?. As players-to-be, you need to rid yourself of self-doubting, belief now and understand that it is possible to learn how to pick up women with consistency. You have the knowledge at your fingertips and as a man, you have the ability to be the Ultimate Cassanova one with limitless options of the female gender.
1. Ability To Interact And Confidence
You’re probably getting excited at the prospect of becoming a player. However, few of you will actually be willing to put yourself out in the line of fire on a consistent basis. But hey if you can’t start conversations and don’t Have pick-up lines, Now you’ve to create your own styled pick-up lines and conversation starters that would get almost every lady interested in whatever next you’re going to say, You’re in the club or a bar and you see a lady with a nice shoe you walk up to her and say ” Is that a Gucci shoe or Jimmy Choo”. Now, if that were a part of who you are, it would be far easier to do, wouldn’t it? This is why you must routinely meet and interact with women. You must make it a habit and have a pick-up line.
2. How You Dress Is your Identity
Attractive women get hit on so much that they don’t have time to get to know every single man who wants to talk to her. Within 30-90 seconds, she’s going to decide if you’re a “maybe” or a “no.” A lot of that comes from how you dress. It’s not just being fashionable. It’s about projecting who you are. Mixed messages are confusing and make women think you’re trying to hide something or be someone you’re not.
3. Being playful And Fun To Be Around
Playfulness means that you are fun to be with, consequently triggering feelings of attraction in women. Ladies always want to be around Daring, Adventurous and Funny guys, with that bit of cocky smile confidence.
4. To Get Women, You First Need To “Get” Women
Most guys don’t get women because they don’t “get” women – i.e. they don’t understand where women are coming from emotionally. But when you understand how attraction works in women, suddenly you start to “get” women. To “get” women you must know how to read their feelings and what they want to hear, but hey thread this line carefully.
5. Make Statements, Not Questions
When creating conversation starters trying to set the P like its called, Don’t ask too many Questions it’s not an interview, she’s out to have fun and relax so don’t bug her with things that would make her think too hard and try to play safe. So make statements that would make her join the conversation naturally and have fun doing it, for example, you say “Rnb is dying” that would definitely. If you can put all of this above guides to use then you can be very sure to never run short or lack ladies. 
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