Dear Aunty Aurora,
I have recently discovered that my fiancé has been exchanging photos and dirty talk online with women and men. I was initially devastated and ended it. He begged me to take him back and I agreed, though we argued a lot. I still didn’t trust him, though. I logged into his account as I knew some of his passwords and discovered he was back on Facebook and one of the websites he had been using before. I was shocked to discover he’d been sexually messaging men as well as women. Thank You. Omotayo, Lagos.
Dear Omotayo,
He has a lot of work to do to earn back your trust. Some people are attracted to both sexes but bisexuality is no excuse for cheating. Tell him you are struggling to trust him, so need lots of loving reassurance. If he does let you down again, call it a day – and spell out to him now that’s how it will be.
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