Aunty Aurora, After 22 Years I’ve Found My First Love On Facebook, Should I Contact Him?

African American woman using laptop

Dear Aunty Aurora,
I logged on to Facebook last week and got the surprise of my life. There was the man that I loved over 20 years ago, with the same lovely smile on his face.

I have been trying to find him for years. We were in love in our teens then his family moved to Europe. It broke both our hearts. We did keep in touch for a while then it gradually all came apart.

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I have been married since then, but then left my husband with my two kids and have never forgotten that first love of mine.

His Facebook page says he is in Lagos again. We are both 38. Should I message him now? Ngozi, Magodo, Lagos.
Dear Ngozi,
Why not send a message? But please remember that many years have passed. Neither of you are the people you were.

Of course, there is a chance you will meet up again and start an exciting new chapter – but do not build up your hopes. Try to take it a step at a time.Photo Credit: Getty

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