The Sharp Naija Guy: 6 Things To Know If You Want To Become Lekki Wives’ ‘Side Guy’

Side guys, this are equivalents of what side chicks are to married men or guys who are in a serious relationship but still have another girl who is the isn’t the main girl. But here the reverse is the case, and I know a lot of you SNGees somewhere deep down your stomach want to be a Side Guy to some wealthy woman or wife of some wealthy man.

This wealthy man who is never around to tender and care for his wife sexual needs. First of all, we need to agree that these type of guys and relationship exists. In marriages, having side guys is a clear sign that we no longer respect the institution as it should. But then again, it’s the 21st century and this is becoming a norm.

Anyway, the fact that they agreed to be in a relationship with full knowledge of the existence of another man should humble them.

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They are supposed to co-exist peacefully with the main guy and at best remain unseen and unheard. Here are the five basic rules they should always stick to.

  1. Know Your Role And Play Your Position: The very first rule about being a side guy to a Lekki Wife is for you to know your position, know who you are, have it at the back of your mind that you might never get to be with this woman it’s highly unlikely. You are just there to satisfy her sexual wants because the main guy can’t or isn’t around enough to do it. Like I said play your role.Side guy rule
  2. Never Talk About Her Man: The second rule never talk bad about her man; meaning never make pass silly comments about the main man because someday you might just say something stupid and you lose the privileges of being a side guy, the free cash, gifts and the amazing sex that comes along with being with an older lady and who loves it but isn’t getting it enough.
  3. Be Her Emotional Punching Bag: You’ve to always be available when she wants you, most especially when she needs that emotional closure. So say the main guy is torturing her emotional or they are having a difficult time in their relationship or marriage you have to always be available to provide her with solace, a shoulder for her to cry on someone to make her happy in those sad moments, this probably when she needs you the most smash her well and send her back to her husband, remember she isn’t your girlfriend or wife.
  4. Shoulder Some Bills: Since you are a beneficiary of the poor woman’s self, share bills in peace. Paying saloon bills among other handouts here and there is not too much to ask. It is a shame to let another man be the only man feeding the cow yet you both milk the cow.
  5. Know Your Calling/texting Hours: This is very important if you want this to work and last know and observe strictly to the calling and texting hours between you and her. Calling hours should be restricted to normal working hours 8-5. This will help prevent ugly confrontations situations where a side guy has an ugly exchange with the main man. pretty mikeUnnecessary long calls are not advisable. It breeds a very unhealthy relationship where the woman and his side guy will imagine themselves the new Romeo and Juliet of the 21st century. If you both start daydreaming like Romeo and Juliet, you both are heading for a ditch and would get found out soon enough.
  6. Never Go Close To Her House: I don’t how best to make this clear, never ever go close to her house, never ever go even if she invites you over, always have an arrangement places where you both meet and hang out hotels, lounge guest houses. If you want to have maybe more than one and can cope playing the game well never let them know where you live too. Keep almost business-like and you would enjoy your life better. Photo Credit: Getty

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