That Sharp Naija Guy: 5 Sexual Signs To Understand To Help Avoid Future Rape Allegations

With the current movement against rape going on in Nigeria with the uprising against social injustices, rape, sexual assault, child molestation, sexual harassment. Brothers we need to do better.Rape Allegations

Yes, I have met rape apologist who claims they carried out some of there insidious acts because of the of mixed or wrong signals your thought was receiving. Know the difference between No! I am not interested, Stop!!! I don’t want this.

Protect yourself because with the current push the rape situation is getting, the rape apologist is getting less and less support. Don’t do it with her unless you’re absolutely sure she wants it.
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More and more celebrities, entertainers and ordinary men are being called out for rape, some true, some genuine allegations, while a large portion is just mixed up situations. I am not saying there aren’t serial rapists out there who deserve having their balls been chopped off.

What this article talks about is knowing the difference between when she says Yes and No;

  1. Learn to know the difference between flirting and consent: A lady might flirt with you, tease you it still doesn’t count as consent.
  2. When a lady comes to pay you a visit it doesn’t count as consent: You try to kiss her and she allows you it still doesn’t count as consent. Until she tells you lets do this, I want you, I want to have sex with you that’s when she gave consent.
  3. Be clear on what you want with your lady: when you invite a lady over and you wish to share something with your her, be clear tell her seductively, say it with affection tell her how much you want to be with her but never do it forcefully.
  4. Know when To stop, don’t mistake her No! for persistence: Don’t get it twisted if she says stop, stop even if she didn’t mean it let her be clear on what she wants. Don’t mistake her don’t touch me as more reason to try harder.
  5. Tell Her To Be Clear On What She Wants: If she comes back and says when I asked you to stop I didn’t mean it I only wanted you to try harder, get her to say it on record. Then sit with her and tell her to stop sending mixed signals if she wants it, Next time she has to say it clearer terms, tell her to be upfront tell her to help protect you and herself.

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